Dating pre op transexual
My childhood issues were jotted down by the therapists almost as if a side note. And that’s if you haven’t tried or committed suicide by then!
(A very common failure in approving surgery.) At no time did I tell my family, consider my career or even consider talking to the love of my life of my plans. All so you can become the girl you “think” you are inside and wanted to be!
I was molested by my “trusting” grandfather at age 3, father was killed at age 5 and while my mother remarried; you could essentially say I grew up without a “father figure” or role model.
Over facetime or on a public date is much preferable to telling him just before an intimate encounter. And remember, if he's worth dating, then he won't be a jerk about it.
I know this isn't a popular opinion, but my approach has always been to be completely transparent as early as I can, but still to do it gently.
This “sickness” and it is a sickness, consumes and takes over your life! Now my interest was finding out how to end my life. How long it takes you to come to this point is subjective; probably once the excitement wears off. You have destroyed everything in your path to get it done and no-one in the medical community will stop you. People, God or whatever you believe in made you in the correct gender. If you think differently, get real help; but, DON”T CHANGE IT.
You will lie to everyone around you as you continue to lie to yourself to get it done. —————————————————————————- This essay was previously published on REtransition.
For the next 15 years I was married and divorced twice.